Spidey_62
You just don't get it!
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I've been through this. It's been a long time but I do remember it vividly. The friend/acquaintance/work buddy who always wants to do something but when you make plans, something comes up.
Obviously, I don't know you or your friend and I can't 100% say for certain that maybe she doesn't know or I don't know how you all in a social setting. Is she all over you, touching, etc.? But if you're around the age I think you are, I think she already knows because I wouldn't be surprised if one of your friends already said something.
However, I wanna say if she was really interested in you, she'd make time. If you're constantly hitting the ball into her court to do thing and she NEVER hits it back or even initiates it, should tell you her level of interest.
She's pretty notorious for being a flake with everybody, so I try my best not to take any of it personally. Heck, there was this one time she was going to go to a free movie preview at the IMAX with my friend when I was out of town and she was all excited about it only to say she was tired and just wanted to sleep right before. She told me she had a boyfriend once, early in high school for a week, he broke up with her because she only went to a movie once with him then kept to herself the rest of the week lol. And honestly, I get the feeling as well sometimes, wanting to do stuff but also wanting solitude. I guess that's just indicative of being introverted?
We're all 21 and are all on the more reserved side. Usually our idea of fun is watching terrible movies, playing board games while drunk, just talking, going for hikes, making (terrible?) movies... Half the time she initiates by saying she wants to do something, sometimes it works out like once recently she was hyped up on coffee to get her through lol. Other times she fizzles out after initiating and just says she's gonna put on her pj's and read and I think "...y'know, that sounds nice now that you mention it." She's hard to get a read on, she always sits or stands right against me, while she does the playful 'throw stuff and stick it on you' to usually everybody but me; which I don't mind- just trying to recollect!
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