Aunt May would have a bullet scar then, right?
In addition, no one remembers that Pete is Spidey, does that mean no one remembers ANY other event since he unmasked? No, that is not how Joe Q et al explained it. They said that EVERYTHING happened the same, just that Pete and MJ weren't married and that everyone REMEMBERS Spidey unmasking, just not WHO was under the mask. MJ and May were the ones who helped talk Pete into unmasking. They sat together on the sofa (in Avengers Tower?) watching Pete unmask... according to Marvel, this event STILL happened, just no one remembers who was behind the mask. So do Aunt May and MJ no longer remember urging Pete to unmask?
Also, this brings up the further question of "Was MJ present at Avengers HQ
with May when Pete unmasked?" Well, now (to my understanding) we know there was some kind of fallout between Pete and MJ right after the "almost" wedding... but they still lived together for years? When did they stop living together? Between the 100 days of OMD and BND? Or sooner?
I contend that BiB could not have happened. Peter would not have beaten Kingpin close to death had May not been shot. A sniper would not have shot May if Peter didn't unmask. Peter would not have unmasked if not for MJ and May's urging. May wouldn't have urged him had she not discovered his identity months prior.
If BiB STILL happened (and according to Marvel, EVERYTHING has happened the same), then May would have a scar. Kingpin got beaten to a pulp and DOZENS of witnesses saw this happen. Marvel has not said anything about its many characters having holes in their memories the size of Texas.
Cause in order for everything to have happened the same (or even similarly), characters across the Marvel Universe... not just Spidey's cast... would have more than the unmasking erased. Many other events are erased from their memories... AND, as Donald pointed out, that still does NOT explain whatsoever how Peter lost his organics and went back to web-shooters...
Even if you bought into the incredibly far-fetched and nonsensical notion that EVERYTHING still happened the same, this would STILL create so many continuity problems,
swiss-cheesed memories, and mis-characterizations, along with the sudden disappearance of a major Spider-power, and the re-appearance of a major Spidey character. All from "I don't" instead of "I do"...?
Nope.