I think we can now that Goeff Johns is in charge of the DCEU. I honestly think Superman should be about his relationship between the world and Metropolis and should include more flashbacks of life growing up on the farm.
I just wanted to revisit this part of your post. Why do you feel there needed to be more flashbacks to Clark's life on the farm growing up? I only ask because the time spent on Smallville flashbacks in MoS is double the time devoted to Diana's childhood. We saw Clark as a scared little boy in class; his mommy came to help him control his powers and settle down. We saw him save a bus of his peers, including a boy who bullied him. We saw him overhear the reaction that boy's mother had to what happened, and how Jonathan saw that it was time for Clark to understand more about who he was and how his actions and decisions can't be as simple as he'd like them to be. We saw Clark letting bullies beat him, and how Pete Ross was there to offer a hand. We saw Clark as a teenager rebel against his father's protection and restrictions because he wanted to discover a greater purpose for his life. We even saw Clark playing superhero as a boy on the farm as he parents looked on and dreamed of his future. Why include more flashbacks to life on the farm? To what end?
I don't disagree with any of that.
but with MOS and BvS, there was this lack of heart and warmth which WW had.
with DCEU Superman, there's just this sense of "detachment" and "aloofness" which doesn't suit the character, imo.
yes, Superman saves people and yes he did noble things and yes he did care for people. But the way Snyder portrayed him in the films just lacked that "something," that intangible whatever, that I felt from WW.
I guess I just come at this from a different angle. I feel more for Superman because he is portrayed as lonely and shy. He was bullied and rejected because he was different. Neither he nor his parents knew his true purpose. He lived in a community and in a world that revealed both its beauty and its darkness. Clark chooses to be a hero anyway. Clark chooses hope. In the end, Clark becomes Superman partly because one of the people he saved -- a journalist who could have proven Jonathan's worst fears -- came to know him, care for him, and believe in him. Clark made a connection with Lois that made a path for Superman. And the path that led Lois to Clark was a long line of people who had been touched by him in some way.
In Diana, I see a Princess raised in Paradise: a privileged deity with a destiny. An entire island of women exist to protect, guide, nurture, and encourage her. Man's World is new and its suffering cuts deeply because Diana has been blessed with a childlike ignorance and a divine custodial mission. The moment the reality of the world reveals itself to Diana, she rejects us. She blames us and leaves us to our fate. For Diana, initially warmth and care came with the caveat that her religion must be real in order for humanity to deserve her love and compassion. What would have happened if Ares hadn't revealed himself? In the end, it is Steve who teaches Diana unconditional love.
In other words, I love both Superman and Wonder Woman because they choose love. But I ultimately connect with and admire Superman more because from a very young age he showed that he would choose compassion and restraint in the face of rejection and cruelty. I understand his loneliness and his difficulty trusting people. I see his heart, however, in his actions, and Clark always chooses love over what people may deserve. He did for Pete Ross what Diana did for Poison when he was a child. He did it again for the soldier, for Batman, for Lex, and for humanity itself.
I don't see aloofness and detachment in him; I see a man who others keep at arm's length because they cannot see him as anything other than a scary alien or an angelic messiah. He returns a little girl to her family after saving her from a fire, a warm smile on his face, yet it is the people around him who see only the divine. He is being attacked by Zod and trying to stop him, yet Bruce sees only a future tyrant. The world cannot even decide if mankind should want or seek his assistance. They ask "Must there be a Superman?" and "Superman could've saved your child, but on principle we did not want him to act."
But I see his nerdy and domestic side. I see his attachment to his mother. I see the romantic. I see his little smile when the seaman who calls him Greenhorn saves him on the Debby Sue. I see the sweet smile he shares with Chrissie as he's wiping down the tables. I see him seeking out Kahina in Gotham and choosing to follow up on the concerns the people shared about the The Batman. I see the grin on his face when he sees two big guys kissing on the ferry to Gotham. I see him caring about the girlfriend and the child of the criminal murdered in prison. The way his eyes always seem to linger on the children.
like the Tornado scene.
It should have been Clark out there rescuing a child left behind, not Pa Kent. Pa initially says he'll go, but Clark rushes right into the tornado because that's his natural instinct to save people. Clark is in middle of rescuing the child when he super hears/sees Pa Kent ( who's back with Martha under the bridge ) having a heart attack. Pa knows his son would come for him, but puts out his hand to stop Clark. Pa wants Clark to focus on saving the child - he sees the hero he always knew his son would become.
Clark is torn, but the tornado is right above him, so he dives down and shields the child with his body. When the tornado passes and the dust clears, Clark walks with, clothes tattered, but holding the child safe in his arms. Yeah, the town would know his secret, but by then I think they already knew. But it's a bittersweet victory because Clark was unable to save Pa.
If they had just shot that scene more like that, to show that "connection" between Clark and the people he saves, that would have gone a long way, imo.
It is Clark's natural instinct to save people. He helps his father save the little girl and clearly wants to save his own father. But the tornado scene isn't about showing us that Clark has a natural instinct to save people. We already saw that with the oil rig and the kids on the bus. The tornado scene is about Clark validating and understanding his father's message about how choices have consequences: what may seem like the right choice in the moment may not be because of the unintended effects. Clark could save his father, but in doing so he reveals himself to a world that isn't ready.
Clark isn't ready. He's only seventeen years-old. Your scenario is beautiful, but it evokes the simplicity that Snyder and his Pa Kent are seeking to avoid. Superman can save Earth from Zod but create seeds of vengeance in Wallace Keefe and Bruce Wayne. Superman can save Lois from a terrorist but doom a village to reprisals. Superman can die saving the world but justify using criminals as enslaved hitmen for government hire. Actions have consequences, doing the right thing is never easy, and nothing is ever simple.