Point taken.
But compared to the series’ other minor “mistakes” — which I mentioned before, and which might be easily ignored, forgiven or rationalized — the tombstone “issue” struck me as particularly problematic. Reason being… the ruse that Buffy was still alive (when she wasn’t) was such an
important part of the early season six arc, that anything which contradicted this ruse was (for me) especially conspicuous.
The notion that the gravesite was remote is perhaps one way to rationalize the explicit tombstone epitaph. But the site couldn’t have been
that remote. After all, those demons — who were randomly pillaging Sunnydale — didn’t have much difficulty riding their motorbikes around and over Buffy’s final resting place.
Another thing that occurred to me (admittedly, only after several viewings)… Buffy was buried in what appeared to be a standard casket. She was also wearing a tasteful dress, hose and pumps. Pretty mundane stuff for a professional mortician and funeral director. But kind of weirdly specific and formal if improvised by the Scooby Gang who, ostensibly, were trying to keep their friend’s death top secret. Granted, if the tombstone is a non-negotiable, then those other details follow the same “logic.” In for a penny, in for a pound.