Herr Logan
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Odin's Lapdog said:in the mean time, perhaps you should tell her that you two might as well make the most of you time together now and be realistic and mature about the future when your times comes to separate and go your separate ways. That way there is still some chance for you guys to be long distant friends that hook up when the time comes and so forth. you could go visit her, she could come and visit you, you could see each other in the holidays.
SAYING THIS HOWEVER, i personally think she may be using this as an excuse and don't be surprised if you hear her with another dude before you guys finish.
if two people have a good thing going on, they'll either keep it tight or keep it open when they leave and may hook up when they get back or whatever but a clean break usually isn't initiated in such a short relationship span.
if i were you, i'll be trying to see what i messed up with in recent weeks.
If that's the case, then he should break it off now.
You may not understand this, but a lot of people prefer not to put up with infidelity.
Seriously, Peacekeeper, if it seems at all likely that she may be looking for "greener pastures," then just break it off as soon as possible. I don't know you, but it's possible that you deserve better than that. But again, if you set yourself up for betrayal when you can see it coming, then you deserve that, too.