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This is your fault Squeeks, as the TV Master. You should have had a raven sent the moment Mads was announced.
Lol, I'll try to do better next time.
This is your fault Squeeks, as the TV Master. You should have had a raven sent the moment Mads was announced.
Catelyn actually talks about that very thing in ....season 3 I think. She even points out that she didn't know him at all before they were married but grew to love him. I think it was the episode where she is talking to Rob about marrying a girl he doesn't even know.I'm curious though, did Ned only really marry Catelyn because his older brother was murdered by Aerys? Like it was a political marriage. Catelyn was married to the elder Stark first and then married Ned as a result. Did they really even know each other at all before they wed? Other than that Catelyn was his older brother's spouse?
]I feel even more for Ned Stark considering he had to make his own wife believe he had sired a son from another woman to sell the illusion that Jon Snow was his bastard. [/B] When the whole time Ned was never unfaithful to his vows with Catelyn at all, and Catelyn had to die never knowing the truth that Ned was true to her the entire time.
I'm curious though, did Ned only really marry Catelyn because his older brother was murdered by Aerys? Like it was a political marriage. Catelyn was married to the elder Stark first and then married Ned as a result. Did they really even know each other at all before they wed? Other than that Catelyn was his older brother's spouse?
Did Ned really have to lie to his wife and the world in that way? Didn't he take in Theon as some sort of spoils of war, so why couldn't he just say Jon was the child of a brave civilian that sacrificed his life for Ned. It's a lie, sure, but not one that would destroy the family.
It's just another example of how these types of marriages amongst the royal or stately families for political advantage, power, influence or maybe even more importantly the security of the people under the rule of those families, would be typical in the history of most countries of the world, and certainly in a GoT medieval era type setting. Going against the interests of your people for personal reasons would be a selfish act (which Robb admits), and indeed led to catastrophe for many of them when the rightfully insulted party sought out revenge (the nature of which obviously wasn't rightful in any way!).
Did Ned really have to lie to his wife and the world in that way? Didn't he take in Theon as some sort of spoils of war, so why couldn't he just say Jon was the child of a brave civilian that sacrificed his life for Ned. It's a lie, sure, but not one that would destroy the family.
Ned lied because Lyanna made him promise to protect Jon and not tell anyone the truth. He's honorable, but his family means more to him than his honor... as shown in 'Baelor'.
It's his sister's son... so naturally he raised him as his own.
Plus.. Ned knows women can't keep a secret so he didn't tell Cat
Did Ned really have to lie to his wife and the world in that way? Didn't he take in Theon as some sort of spoils of war, so why couldn't he just say Jon was the child of a brave civilian that sacrificed his life for Ned. It's a lie, sure, but not one that would destroy the family.
I wonder if Ned was worried about the opposite end of the spectrum: that Job would follow his father in appearance.He did have to lie, because in the books its stated that Jon looks ridiculously like a young Ned Stark. He had the Stark look more than any of Ned's children save for Arya, who was described as a miniature Lyanna Stark in terms of appearance and character.
The kid was clearly related to him so he couldn't really say anything else.
I wonder if Ned was worried about the opposite end of the spectrum: that Job would follow his father in appearance.
My experience with babies is that at times, you'll see a little bit of both sides of the family in them from day to day. It takes a fair few years before you can say definitively who they take after.
Then again if Jon had his mother's eyes rather than purple I guess that would have encouraged Ned from off the bat.
Haha, certainly not the sharpest guys in Westeros.Funny you say this. If Ned took Jon in as his own, knowing that more than likely Jon would retain the more dominant roots of dark hair and eyes, you would think he and Robert would have been more wary of why Roberts kids had the blonde hair and not the dark hair that the Starks and Baratheons were known for.
I guess both men were kind of dumb.
Haha, certainly not the sharpest guys in Westeros.