As someone who grew up loving the Raimi trilogy--and I still consider Spider-Man 2 the best movie with Spidey in it--Tom Holland walks away with this in a landslide.
He nails the character. It is magical in a way the others didn't. I still really like what Tobey did, but Holland? Yeah he now owns this role.
Yes, he so absolutely crushed the role and is the perfect Peter Parker/ Spiderman.
But honestly, watching that film you realize how good the writers are and what liberty they are taking with the character. They brought Spiderman up to the real world of today and it works.