Eh, the Spider-Sense isn't a perfect defense. It typically provides a few moments of warning, tops, and is almost always vague about details. And even with that, Peter still needs to actually dodge. If he's tired, or the attack is wide enough, or if he's off-balance or in the air, this may not be possible. Even worse if the attack is a melee attack from somebody else with enhanced reflexes and/or high end skill; they can adjust for his dodge.
Basically, the Spider Sense primarily is a thing that makes it much harder for Peter to be ambushed or blind sided. In a fight where that's no longer relevant, its much less important than his enhanced speed.
Then give it limitations and be creative.Well, they're right of course. It IS a crutch. If applied consistently and in line with the comics it would render Spidey all but untouchable. You'd need a huge explosion nearby(maybe a nuke) to reliably hit him. What's needed are good limitations on that power.
It would be so dope if daredevil came in to teach Peter how to hone his spidey sense because he desperately needs it to fight his villain. pipe dream.
That's not really seeing the Spider-Sense though.
In Infinity War we actually get to see how it works in action and warning him of imminent danger.
I mean it was implied that he has it. Some people believed he doesn't have it at all.