The reality is , we're dealing with a 60 year old character , who, while keeping some characteristics similar , has been portrayed in different ways by different actors in different contexts.
Its a 60 year old character with multiple comics, continuities, cartoons, films, tv shows across 6 decades.
So there's never going to be an actor, or a version of the character, that will capture every aspect of Peter Parker to the satisfaction of everyone.
There will always be people who aren't satisfied with whatever iteration comes along.
The same thing happened to Tobey. The same thing certainly happened with Andrew, and the same thing will happen with the next actor to play Peter Parker. You can bet on it.
For me, the question is whether the producers have delivered a version of Spiderman I like and except, and whether I feel Holland has done a good job to the best of his ability.
For me, the answer is yes to both. For others fans, the answer is no.
At the end of the day, Holland's Spiderman is a huge success with the GA, and like or not, he's the Spiderman for a younger generation of kids who are gonna look back fondly at his tenure .